Before going back to Sarawak

Today is 29/10/2013(Tuesday).My flight going back to Sarawak is 1/11/2013(Friday).Just three days left then I can go back to Sarawak and backto my hometown and my home too ! I am very excited right now and it had been two months I stay at  here,UKM and never go back to my home.Before this,when the holiday was coming,all my friends here(because mostly they are from Semenanjung Malaysia) always shared with me about what will they do when they are home.Of course they also talked about what the foods will their mother cooked for them when they were home.I was so admire them because they can always  go back to their home and meet with their family easily.This is why I always called to my mum saying that how much I miss her and my family too.And now this time is my turn.Is my turn going back to my home in Sarawak.And this time I can share enjoyablely with my friends about what I will do when I go back and my mum’s cooking too.But the most important things that I need to do when I go back is to teach my younger sister because she is sitting SPM examination this year.I will teach her as much as I can do so that she can do well in her exam and get the good results.Besides,my eldest sister and my elder sister will go back to home too.I am very excited to meet them because it had been two months we do not meet each other and chit-chatting together.Although we always SMS and calling each other through the Wechat,Facebook,Whatsapp and so on,but the feeling is not the same.Both of my elder sisters are very good in their cooking and baking too.Both of them always bake the delicious cakes when they are home.Of course when I go back I will always go to my mum shop to help them because she is very busy in her works.Home always ids the best place to us.Although all of us do not have the same home,but I swear we will feel very warm and lot of love when we are in home.And I will always cherish the time with my family.Because it’s very hard to reunion with each other when we are getting growing up.We do not have the childhood time anymore,the time we always play together, quarrelling and so on.Now,each of us need to work and study.Barely don’t have the chance by spending time together like childhood.So,I will cherish the precious moments with my family when I go back.It’s really excited !

Responsibilities

Everyone does have their responsibilities.Me too.My responsibilities are including I’m as a children,,as a friend,as a sister,as a student and so on.What I want to focus on my blog today is my responsibility as a children.As everyone know that parents are the most important people living in our life.Without them we are nothing.They sacrifice for us with a lot of things but they never ask us to pay back,this is just because we are their lovely CHILDREN.How special are we to them.They work hard till the late night to earn money just because they want to give us the better things and to have a better life.We need to appreciate it every moments no matter what.The main responsibility from us as a child to them is to respect them.Respect is a vital and it’s  special.No matter how hard we go through or how many homeworks or works we need to do in our daily life,don’t forget to respect them.But many people do not take it seriously,when their parents call them when they are doing their works,they will feel very annoying and use the impolite words to answer them.Do you know how will they feel?Please remember when we are young or childhood,they still make jokes with us,talk to us smoothly, accompany us when we are sad after they finish their busy works in the office.They always love us no matter how the situation is.There are just a few minutes,please answer their questions and talk to them smoothly and respectly when you are in phone and don’t forget to concern them.Or try to imagine that if one day when you are calling to your son or daughter when you are boring in home,but they use the rude words to answer you even scold you because of your bothering,what is your feeling?It’s hurt.So please remember that without our “hero” parents,we are nothing.For them,we are the special gift from God.They love us so much and I love my parents so much too.As deep as the sea.They are the most important people in my life. 

Relationship before marriage

Marriage is about compromise, meaning the art of negotiation is an essential skill.Our decision-making model is vital because it indicates how egalitarian our relationship is.Marriage is the proposal, the ring and, of course, all the planning for the big day. But getting married isn't really about the wedding day, it's about the quality of the marriage that follows. So how do you get started on the right foot?There are some  important issues couples need to discuss before getting hitched.

At first,it’s about Decision-making model. You need to make sure your partner agrees with you about how an ideal relationship should work. Sharing important decisions and deciding together who should decide what takes strong listening, negotiating and problem-solving skills. You may not be perfect at it, but you need to know what you're working toward.

Secondly,it’s about Chore and task-sharing. Do you plan to take care of the laundry, while your man takes responsibility for outdoor tasks like mowing the lawn? Don't just assume you know how these responsibilities will be divvied up. Talk about them.Roles in relationships have been changing for the past few decades, and gender roles differ from one family to another.Talking about it before marriage can give you a foundation on which to build later discussions if and when you find you aren't happy with the status quo.

Thirdly,it’s about  Children. Do you both want children? If so, how many? And once you've got your little brood, how do you intend to raise them? While you might assume that children are an obvious part of a marriage, your partner may feel differently. This is a very important issue and you need to take it seriously.

Apart from that,it’s about Careers.Career paths often change over time, so you want to know that your partner is going to respect your need to make decisions about yours with his input and respect, and expect your input on his.Look for a flexible, sharing and respectful attitude.

Lastly,it’s about Time together and apart.Do you envision yourself spending Saturday nights snuggling with your honey on the couch, watching movies and enjoying quality time together? Your partner may have a different idea about how to spend Saturday nights. Discuss these things and don't fall into the trap of making assumptions about your partner's preferences. This can lead to unnecessary disappointment.

Seven weeks in UKM

Until today,i been UKM here already 47 days,around seven weeks.

In this seven weeks i went through a lot of things including happiness,sadness and so on.What I sad for is about changing the faculty.I didnt success to get the course that I want.But now I accept it and handle it well.And actually I need to appreciate a lot because I can study here,The National University of Malaysia.I always proud of this.Because not everyone can get in here,one of the famous university in Malaysia.However,I feel very happy and enjoy after I been here this few weeks and I can get used the life here already compare to the time I just came here.In UKM,I make many friends here.They are very friendly,kind,and always making some jokes to cheer me up when I am down especially after I realised that I didnt success to change my faculty.They also always share their things with me.For example,during the holiday of Perayaan Hari Raya Haji,they all went back to their hometown but I didnt because my hometown,Sarawak is very far and I will be very rush if I go back.After they all came back from their hometown after the holiday,they brought back many local food to me.They all know that my favourite food is sweet food so they brought many sweet food to me especially my roommate.I feel very touch and warm.They always take very good care to me.Apart from that,when i face problems,they all lend their hands to me,always helping me,adviced me,supporting me and cheer me up.I also very appreciated about there are many kind,helpful seniors here.Actually when i applied changing faculty,there are a senior helped me a lot.He helped me to do the procedures and run here run there.I really thank him so much.There are also many helpful seniors here.They helped us,all the juniors.Thank you !

My trip in Malacca

During the holiday of Perayaan Hari Raya Haji,i didnt go back to my hometown,Sarawak because it's too far and too rush.One of my friend that is same college (Kolej Rahim Kajai) with me,brought me back to her hometown that is Malacca.I spent five days four night at there.What I want to say is Malacca is a very amazing place.There are many old buildings all around the Malacca especially at Jonker Walk.My friend said that the old buildings at Malacca is very precious and cant be destroyed because it's very historial.During the weekend,my friend and I went to Jonker Walk together in the evening.There are many tourists there and have a lot of delicious food there.One of my favourite food there is Durian puff.It's very delicious and I ate many of that.The cost of that also not expensive,buy three just RM5 and It's really worth it.

Not only that,there also have many delicious food!Apart from that,my friend mum is very good in her cooking.I really feeling warm at their house even though I am not in home and beside with my family.They all are very friendly including her uncle,aunt,cousin and her friends.I was very enjoy when the  time in Malacca.But the most annoying one is the weather there is very hot.So i prefer went out in evening and at night.
In conclusion,Malacca is a historial and amazing place to go.^^

Kepentingan Elektrik

Tenaga elektrik adalah satu keperluan penting dalam kehidupan.  Setiap hari kita menggunakan peralatan – peralatan elektrik.  Dalam dunia yang serba maju ini, kita semakin bergantung kepada sumber tenaga bagi melaksanakan sebarang aktiviti harian.  Kepentingan tenaga elektrik dan kegunaanya adalah terlalu banyak untuk dinyatakan.

Penggunaan peralatan- peralatan elektrik juga dapat meningkatkan taraf kehidupan kita di samping menambah kesejahteraan dan keselesaan hidup.Untuk memastikan bahawa keperluan tanaga elektrik adalah sentiasa mencukupi dan berterusan serta pada harga yang munasabah, kita perlu menggunakan tenaga elektrik dengan cekap, bijak, dan proaktif.Di harapkan kita semua prihatin dan sedar akan peranan dan tanggungjawab bersama untuk menjimatkan sumber tenaga fosil yang semakin berkurangan di samping membantu dalam memelihara alam sekitar untuk generasi akan datang.

                 Adakah anda bayangkan apa yang akan berlaku jika dunia ini tidak ada elektrik?Dunia ini mesti akan menjadi sangat huru-hara.Hal ini dapat dibuktikan semasa UKM black out.Saya masih ingat masa itu banyak kelas dibatalkan dan banyak aktiviti pun tidak dapat dijalankan dengan sempurna dan lancar.Dalam dunia yang berteknologi ini,setiap aktiviti adalah berkaitan computer.Disebabkan tidak ada elektrik,banyak kerja terpaksa berhenti.Pensyarah tidak dapat menjalankan kerja mereka,pelajar tidak dapat belajar juga.Selain itu,banyak orang juga akan bimbang akan bateri handphone dan computer masing-masing kerana tidak dapat charge.Hal ini juga menyebabkan kamin tidak dapat berhubung dengan antara satu sama lain terutamanya kawan-kawan dan ahli keluarga.

              Konklusinya,sudahlah kita tahu bahawa elektrik adalah sangat penting kepada kita.Oleh itu,kita perlulah menghargai apa-apa yang kita dapat sekarang.

UKM life

I have been here,UKM almost one month already.What I want to share today is my UKM life.In this one month,I went through a lot of things.At first is about the changing course as I share it on my post on last week.It really make me down and depressed.I tried to accept it now,hopefully I can handle it well.However I make many new friends here and it really worth it.They all are friendly and come from different states.When i feeling sad,they will always beside me and comfort me and this really let me feel warm because we are just been here only one month together but they treat me so good.Really appreciated all.

Kebaikan Media Sosial

Pada zaman sekarang,saya percaya semua orang tahu apa itu media sosial.Antara contoh-contoh media sosial adalah Facebook,Twitter,Instagram dan sebagainya.Media sosial sangat penting kepada setiap orang terutamanya kepada pelajar yang perlu guna media sosial untuk berkawan dengan orang yang pandai di seantero dunia untuk bertukar ilmu bersama-sama dan orang-orang awam yang menggunakan media sosial untuk berurusniaga.Media masa boleh membolehkan kita berkawan dengan orang ramai termasukklah kawan-kawan di luar negara.Selain itu,ia juga mengeratkan hubungan kita dengan ahli keluarga dan kawan kerana dengan menggunakan media sosial seperti Facebook kita boleh senantiasa berhubung dengan antara satu sama lain dengan Free Of Charge.Dengan itu kita dapat menghubungi ahli keluarga kita pada setiap masa tanpa risau credit handphone tidak cukup.Di samping itu,media masa juga membolehkan kita mendapat ilmu pengetahuan yang tidak dapat dipelajari dalam buku.

Media sosial lah yang menghubungi setiap manusia yang dari negara-negara yang berbeza.

Sadness

Actually since yesterday I feeling very sad.The feeling that I dont know how to express it out.I very very interest in law.I want to study law so much.I still remember last time once I knew my UPU result about I didnt get law,my tears just rolled down from my eyes.That time I thought,Is it my fate that cannot be a lawyer.But after my family and my friends advised me about to be a accountant also is a better choice too.It's more relax compare to law.So,yup!Before i came in UKM,i already prepared myself to study all about the regarding course.But when I am here, many people told me that I can change my faculty and the possibility of success is very high.And once again,that feeling is BACK! I really put hope on that and didnt pay attention and didnt do any homeworks for all the FEP course,I really thought that i can study law as I wish so much.
All are just until yesterday,when I went to Bahagian Akademik and received the letters from them about whether I success or fail for my application.Once again,that feeling is back but this time I didnt cry,deep down I really sad and deppressed.Feeling very empty in my heart.I dont know what should I do now.I am not happy.
That feeling just like all the people give you hope and you enjoy with that but suddenly all the hopes are gone.
I sad.I dont know what should I do now.

Blog Inspirasi

Blog yang saya suka ialah Blog Fatin Liyana.Alamatnya ialah http://honeykoyuki.blogspot.com/.Saya sangat suka dan gembira semasa menbaca blognya.Dia merupakan seorang yang baik hati.Dia sentiasa menolong orang lain seperti derma.Hal ini dapat dibukti melalui iklan-iklan atau post-post yang dia share.Recently,dia juga share pengalaman-pengalaman atau happy moments semasa pelancongannya pergi ke India.Melalui ceritanya,saya mengetahui cara-cara hidupan,tempat-tempat terkenal,makanan-makanan yang sedap dan sebagainya di India.Melalui ini,saya rasa saya macam juga melancong di India.Sangat menyeronokkan.Saya berharap banyak orang juga menbaca blog dia kerana ia memang menyeronokkan.